Tuesday, April 12, 2011

“When days are dark friends are few”

Hello stranger!

Have you ever noticed that when you are in trouble, most of your friends just run away from you and your problems? That is why you have to make sure that you choose right friends. This may be the most difficult thing to do and it may take a lot of your time, but it is worth it, I tell you. Now why do we have friends? It’s a broad question to answer I must admit it.

There are many answers to this question but, most of us get friends to satisfy or societal needs so said “Maslow” and most of us have friends to have a shoulder to cry on. Therefore, if you don’t have a friend or a group friends as some of us may prefer, it simply means that there is no shoulder to cry on. There is no one to share your views with, no one to love. Everyone may look at you as a stranger, as that guy who sits in the middle of the class during lectures.

Look in the mirror tonight and ask yourself, why you belong to the group you hang around with. What are you benefiting from them, and how much influence does the group have on your life? Most importantly, ask yourself will they be there when your days are dark?



2 comments:

  1. yes it is but you have to look your self because you know where or group of people you belong. i thonk i'm lucky because where i am now is because of friend or i've made the right choice.

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  2. I like your topic and what you are saying its true Mzo.when you are intruble your fried run away, they are like baloons.

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